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Where Did the Posts Go?

Wed, 03 Aug 2022 19:50:21 GMT

Where Did the Posts Go?

I’ve asked myself the same question more than once. Yes, I took a break! A very long and unexpected break, but I’m back! When stepping into something new, things don’t always go as planned. My blog is no exception. It’s not an option for me to completely stop blogging or posting right now. Instead, I’ve chosen to figure out a better way to implement blogging into my schedule. In the midst of living my life, my goal is to keep going, trying, and pushing for my blog’s purpose. Bloggers are imperfect, unique, and human. That’s me!

During my break…

I was able to review my blog’s schedule and ideas. Initially, I planned this blog thinking it had to be a certain way for my viewers. It’s really not that complicated. In the beginning, I would plan and write, but not post by specific days(I chose, but didn’t announce). That alone would change so much for me. Moving forward…To put my posting pressures at ease, I prefer not to make a specific schedule for posting. I’m going to stick with my natural and creative flow. I saw where changes needed to be made and I’m making them. It’s safe to say, I used my break wisely.

What to expect…

If you're familiar with pop-up shops, you know they appear out of nowhere. I’m choosing to take a “pop-up” blogger approach. My posts are going to appear when you least expect them to. Spontaneous updates and posts(without the long breaks)are apart of my new game plan…I will post without the unnecessary pressures of my own expectations. You may even see shorter, but amusing posts. My posts may or may not be for everyone. I’d like to keep them positive, interesting, and spontaneous.

As for the blog’s future…

Who knows what the future really holds? If for any reason the blog were to permanently vanish, I hope to be the first to know and relate that information to you. For now, I’m back to posting! I gladly welcome your attention and appreciate your well wishes for my blog. I’m hoping for longevity. Thank you for patiently waiting for more posts!

A Never Too Late Holiday Glam Gift

Thu, 23 Dec 2021 00:51:29 GMT

Are you "Creatively In The Midst" of holiday shopping?

Hello! 'Tis the season for impulsive and chaotic shopping is here! Surprising those we think of on special occasions can make those days more exciting! Finding the perfect gift on a wish list may or may not put a mind at ease. There’s no reason to panic! Let your gift ideas flow with your natural shopping abilities. You may get lucky and stumble across something bigger or smaller, but better than what’s on that wishlist. Besides, some gifts aren’t used on a regular basis and stashed away with other discarded things for whatever reason…Trendy gifts could possibly become a bore to someone who’s always looking for the next new thing…The gift you want and need may not be available in store or online.

So, what gift should you buy? The answer may be different for every individual. Buying a gift that someone can use daily, weekly, or monthly is a smart option. For me, I‘ve noticed that things that are more beneficial to someone’s self-care, safety/protection, or personal convenience are gladly accepted. Gifts that the other person may not even think to buy for themselves is also a smart gift buying route to take. Just think about simple, everyday, and useful things. Keep in mind, what works for you, may not work for them. Your gift buying choice could be helpful at some point or another. At least, I hope so! They say,” It’s the thought that counts.” Until you see the expression on the receiver's face, you really won’t know. In my “Coming to America” voice, “Go ahead honey take a chance.”

Glam gift giving has been one of my favorite and simpler options. If that’s what you’re looking for, this small list is for you. What would I, the blogger, use and give in a glam stocking, box, or basket? Many things, but I’ll just list a few great useful goodies here…Keep in mind, there are other options available for these products and brands. If they’re not listed below, you may be able to find them using the links provided. This list can assist you in compiling a "never too late holiday gift" stocking, box, or basket that others make refer to as "last-minute gifts" Good luck!

Note: I’m not affiliated with any of the products or companies listed below. It’s my own personal use or opinions only. I have provided links below for each product and for your own research purposes.

1. Vaseline Lip Therapy Rosy Lips

I’ve come to realize not everyone is into lipstick, lip gloss, or other dramatic lipwear. Everyone can use some lip therapy and care. Vaseline has been one the top go to products for skin care and lips. The Rosy Lips 0.25 oz is one of their top sellers and perfect size for stocking stuffers.

They have options for everyone.

https://www.vaseline.com/us/en/products/lip-care/vaseline-lip-therapy-rosy-mini.html

2. Nature’s Truth Peppermint Aromatherapy Topical Mist

If the peppermint aroma doesn’t bother the giftee, then this is definitely useful. It can be sprayed on pillows and bedding for a restful and peaceful night. The giftee can even use it for their visiting guests.

https://naturestruth.com/supplements/peppermint-essential-oil-mist/

3. Bling Sting Pepper Spray

Let’s hope they never have to use this item, but at least have it on hand if they have to. Showing someone you care about their safety is a good sign. For whatever reason, many people don’t think about buying pepper spray. Again even if they don’t use it, just having a little safety comfort makes it worth buying and giving. It’s a great accessory to have.

https://www.blingsting.com/collections/blingsting-pepper-spray

4. Planner

Planners are very useful. They can help make days, weeks. months, and years less of a hassle. Someone trying to keep everything in their head can be very stressful. Important dates and information stored in a well organized place is a very convenient and productive way to assist in making daily tasks simpler.

You can find planners at your local Michaels, Hobby Lobby, Walmart, or online.

5. Think Space Beauty LED SLIM MIRROR

Rather you’re at home, work, social gathering, traveling, or etc., a mirror is always useful. Sometimes, it’s good to have your own handy and available. The little small compact mirrors are only good for so much. It’s impossible to carry a large vanity mirror everywhere you go. This mirror is like carrying a normal size tablet around. It’s a lightweight and rechargeable led mirror. Perfect for a purse or bag big enough to store it.

https://thinkspacebrands.com/pages/thinkspace-beauty

6. All Season Professional ASP Stainless Steel Pedicure File

All feet are not the same. Not all pedicure services are the same. The right pedicure file can make a big difference. Pedicure files are very important to foot care, soft, and smooth feet. Definitely one of those items, I enjoy using and seeing great results. Even if you are or know someone who is a faithful pedicure client, this file is a must have item just in case that Pedicure Pro appointment isn’t available.

https://www.sallybeauty.com/nails/nail-care-and-accessories/nail-files-and-buffers/stainless-steel-foot-file/SBS-154302.html

I hope these ideas help! Happy Holidays!

Remember to try all products or tips at your own risk(s)!

4 Effortless Shine Lip Glosses

Fri, 29 Oct 2021 01:10:58 GMT

4 Effortless Shine Lip Glosses

Lipsticks or lip glosses? Although I can’t go wrong with a good long lasting lipstick, I find myself needing lip gloss here and there. I’d have to say that both work well for me. They both compliment the overall appearance of my lips and other lip colors. There’s only one hiccup(for me) when it comes to wearing lip glosses. They don't last as long as my lipsticks. Preferably, lipstick is my first choice. I’m finding t hat there are other necessary reasons to keep a few lip glosses in my cosmetic collection. I'm sharing a few of my “all under $10” top picks and why I personally like them. I’m not limited to these particular lip glosses. For now, I use these four brands based on the occasion or my need for them. They can be easily accessed over the counter!

Take into consideration that I'm a non affiliated consumer. The post is my personal experience. The post is not intended to rate the products. Please read product labels before purchasing and usage. Thank you!

1. Maybelline New York LIFTER Gloss

The first thing that caught my eye about this lip gloss was the unique embossed packaging. It’s not important, but it’s eye-catching. Eye-catching opens the door to curiosity. Curiosity sales. More importantly, I like the pearl color of the actual lip gloss. It gives off a sparkly glow effect. Yet, it’s clear.

Use:

comes with a soft applicator
glides on easily and smoothly

Interests:

very light feel to it
not tacky
sparkly without the glittery feel
moisturized lips
nice scent
moisture lasting longer than the actual lip gloss
similar lip balm benefits
not overly shiny
neutral/natural look
one coat coverage

My Thoughts: Definitely, a daily gloss for me. It's good for lip care and shine.

For more information on the product go to www.maybelline.com

2. Revlon Super Lustrous THE GLOSS

Of course, the simple but elegant packaging was the first thing that I noticed. I love the black and gold colors together. I was looking for a clear gloss without the sparkle and glitter for those not so glitzy glam days and occasions.

Use:

softer/larger applicator than most
glides on easily and smoothly

Interests:

neutral and natural look
little water and drink proof
doesn’t leave the lips feeling dry
one coat coverage
not tacky
feels smooth
nice shine

My Thoughts: I feel like it’s an e veryday gloss and for any occasion.

For more information on the product go to www.revlon.com

3. Flower GALAXY GLAZE Holographic Lip Gloss

I call it my “lights, camera, action” lip gloss… This is one, I like for a night out or a little holiday sparkle and shine. Under the lights this lip gloss is sparkly and beautiful. It adds an extra glitter effect to other lip colors.

Use:

thin applicator
glides on easily

Interests:

glowing & glittery effect
light or day sparkle
not tacky
glitter you see but don’t feel

My Thoughts: A gloss, I would choose for a very sparkly occasion.

For more information on the product go to www.flowerbeauty.com

4. Broadway VITA-LIP Honey

This is my go to “gloss, gloss”. I’m a huge fan of honey. It wasn’t hard choosing this one. The packaging is very classic. The gold top gives it an elegant modern touch.

Use:

applicator is attached to bottle
no dipping
glides on easily

Made the most of:

very smooth
honey scent
glides on smooth
very shiny
not tacky

My thoughts: I’d choose this one for a special date or beauty and fashion photography.

For more information on the product go to www. broadwaymakeupusa.com

Simple Wardrobe Fixer-Uppers

Wed, 22 Sep 2021 18:27:29 GMT

Before changing, returning, selling, or tossing your wardrobe have you considered these 5 possible mistakes?

1. Not being aware of your body measurements before purchasing... Not knowing your personal body type and measurements can be crucial to your overall look and style. It sounds simple to take some measurement tape and wrap it around the legs, waist, arms, thighs, and etc. It can be tricky when trying to find the perfect size for certain things. I hear many women say they have issues with bra fitting. I can relate. The bar can set the foundation for constructing the right style. The bra size is definitely a common and overlooked mistake. Knowing the correct bra size can be beneficial to the wardrobe’s outer appearance. The wrong bra style and/or size can make any wardrobe look awkward and unfitting. Could it be that you have on the right style, but the wrong bra? Check the bra first!

Tip: It’s okay if you don’t know. It’s better to know. You can always search and locate a Certified Fit Specialist. Most department stores and seamstresses can advise you. Don’t feel ashamed to ask for help. If it helps, gather a few close family or friends and include body measurements into a spa or shopping day. Better to know your size than to get dressed and be uncomfortable and surprised.

2. Underestimating your figure... What the world sees as the perfect size and body may not be ideal for many others. Your size and shape should only matter to the inner you. Your outer appearance could be missing the right styles, fabrics, or accessories. Those are simple fixes. Work with what you have. The size of your body frame shouldn't matter. Fashion is for you! Whatever you decide to wear, start demolishing the unnecessary insecurities and rebuild your style with confidence. You have to trust your judgement even if it involves the opinions of others. Let go of any insecurities when it comes to your own figure.

3. Putting your age before your shoe size… The famous singer Prince said you should act your age and not your shoe size. I totally agree with that. I also believe the opposite when it comes to fashion. Many feel uncomfortable wearing certain things because they feel it’s out of their time and era. Do you feel the same? If they sell the item in your size and you feel comfortable in the shoe, I say walk the walk. Wear the darn shoe! Don’t limit your style by your age. Eras change and so does fashion. Dinosaurs are extinct, but that doesn’t mean your style has to be. Wear the stilettos if you want to! Don't allow your age to determine your fashion sense.

4. Relying on trends… I have nothing against trends. I actually keep up with them from time to time. I don’t rely on trends to set the tone for my style. Actually doing the total opposite can be just as flattering and stylish. If it’s trending, it’s most likely popular for the time being and very noticeable. Keep in mind that being different is also noticeable. Imagine being invited to a "all pink attire" function. They're probably going to expect you to show up wearing pink. If you show up in all green, you will be noticed and standing out from the rest. Of course, that would be little inconsiderate. I'm not saying you should, but it happens. If you must, follow the trends, but try to make changes to them. Make them your own. Never rely on trends to fulfill your fashion desires. You many not like what's currently on the market. Take a chance, be bold and different. Why should you fit in when you can standing out?

5. Not having enough views… Sorry, I’m not talking about your social media views here. We are still on fashion. At home, a typical person will look in one to two mirrors while getting dressed. Most dressing rooms at a store may have one to four mirrors. Having more mirrors will allow you to see multiple angles of your look all at once. One mirror can make things a bit difficult and cause you to overlook simple mishaps like a missing belt loop. Maybe that's just me. I don't like the hassle of having to turn three hundred and sixty degrees over and over just for a wardrobe check. Are you having to do the same thing? A few extra mirrors might be your solution. The more mirrors, the better views. It helps and it works. You should be able to see your wardrobe and how stylish it really is.

Before you start getting rid of things, check those simple internal or external mistakes you could be making. It could save you time and change your sense of style.

*Warning : Try at your own risk!

Feeling Incompatible? Go with your Gut!

Wed, 22 Sep 2021 17:20:05 GMT

What’s really going on?

Have you ever felt disconnected from people, places, or things? Like you didn’t belong? Did the disconnection make you feel better or worse about yourself or the situation? For me, it all depends. Social disconnection is one thing. Mental disconnection is another. My top priority is self-care and avoiding disconnecting mentally from myself. What about you? Have you stopped thinking or feeling the same way? Noticing a difference in your appearance? Not as active anymore? Maybe, you're trying to figure out what’s wrong? Are you searching for answers? Those are the aspects that come to mind, when I speak about feeling disconnected from my mind and body. I’ve been there. I felt like something wasn't right. I’ve felt a mind and body disconnection. My first thoughts and concerns pointed to the possibility of health issues. Maybe, it was all in my head? Was it me or my body? So many questions but no enough answers.

A much needed confrontation....

Sometimes, it takes experiencing that little or big thing. It may open our eyes and put things into a better perspective. My health was one of those things. I became my own health and body private investigator. I searched for clues. Nothing came out of it. Finally, I enlisted the help of medical professionals. “Obesity” was brought to my attention by one of the doctors. Hearing I was obese wasn’t traumatic or embarrassing. It was more of an eye opener. The professional, blunt, and honest delivery helped me to understand the extra pounds and problems. Honestly, I had been feeling a disconnection from my body mentally and physically for some time. I didn’t know what it was. Now, I was finally being told. Being called out on my issues was very helpful, not hurtful. I accepted and respected it. It was a much needed conversation that needed to take place.

See what had happened was...

Obesity mentally befriended me. I quickly fell for the delicious indulgences that came along with having obesity as a new friend. Everything that looked good, obesity was for it. I was enjoying myself. I wasn’t turning down any plates. I had that “turn down for what” attitude. Those early morning, evening, and late night kitchen and restaurant creeps were too easy for me. I had a new “turn up” friend making me think I was hungry all the time. It was great! At least that’s what I thought. At the same time, I was hurting another part of me. Something that really mattered to me. The one thing that showed me the signs, alerted me that I was indulging too much, was sensitive towards me, tried to help me break down all the junk inside of me, and helped me with proper nutrients and care. Obesity was causing problems between me and what I need the most. A healthy gut, my body’s real friend. I hadn’t realized it, but I was hurting my gut. It became apparent to me that whatever healthy relationship I had established with my gut early on in life was now being affected. It was quickly becoming an unhealthy one. Physically, a problem was there. Yes, I could see it and feel it, but I ignored it. I was in love with the extra entrees, desserts, and snacks. Eventually, It came down to a “for better or worse” situation. Obesity and I were on a destructive health path. A decision had to be made. I couldn’t have them both. If starting with giving up obesity was the answer, I was ready to do just that. I chose my gut. I had to make things right between me and my gut again. For that to work, I took the necessary steps. Maybe, the same 8 steps can help you to start co-existing with your gut again.

1. Be honest with your gut. Keep in mind that your gut knows the inner you before you do. You can’t hide what’s already there. You have to be willing to admit that you notice and feel something is wrong. The signs will be there. Consider your gut, recognize the problem, and be willing to work on fixing it.

2. Seek help. Speak to a medical professional, trained individual, family member, friend, or a support group. Someone who can help and encourage you to make better choices for you and your gut. Tip: Always start with a medical professional.

3. Research. Reading is key. Find reputable information from books, online websites, articles, blogs, and etc. Your gut and mind will have to work as a team. You will need them both. Always fact check your research. Tips are to be taken very cautiously. It’s up to you to try and experiment based on your body and research.

4. Start a gut journal. For the first 30 days, keep track of what you eat and drink. Be sure to notate how each thing may or may not affect your gut. This will help you to eliminate the foods and drinks that could be harming or slowing your healthy gut process.

5. Downsize. It’s sometimes hard to do, but very necessary. I’m talking about portions here. We have to eat, but it’s the overeating that we have to be cautious of. It’s not always easy. You can actually purchase portion plates to help you get started. A divided disposable plate can help control portions. Use whatever is affordable for you.

6. Don’t be hard on your gut. Try not to criticize the appearance of your gut or body. How you feel will affect your gut. You don’t want to risk feeling bad about yourself. That can make matters worse. You can actually love yourself and that alone will help you to start taking better care of your gut and your body. Speak positive things into existence. Be willing to put in the work to help you and your body feel better.

7. Find compatibility. You may like the taste of chocolate ice cream, but your gut might not like it as much. It will let you know in ways such as bloating, pain, diarrhea, and other uncomfortable ways. Sometimes, you will notice the signs immediately or later. Try to eat foods that you both agree with.

8. Safely and cautiously begin your journey. You may have heard it before...It’s always highly recommended that you seek medical advice and help before starting any diet or exercise. That's true! Once you have done all the things needed to help you understand your current situation, gut, and body, decide if you want to start a healthy journey or not...Start when you're ready. If you ever start and stop, remember you can always pick up where you left off. No journey will be perfect. Effort alone can feel like a journey. The right things are worth it!

Keep in mind, there are some uncontrollable issues. If obesity is one of your issues, you can do something to help. Help yourself! Always consider your gut feelings. They do matter and they tell you more than you know. If you listen to your gut, it could change your life for the better. It’s really all about the healthy relationship you have with yourself. Love your gut and take care of it.

*Warning : I am not a medical professional. This post is a reflection of my own personal experience. Try all tips at your own risk!